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Bloggers come and bloggers go.

Some bloggers have been around, it seems, since the very beginning of the blogosphere; others publish a few posts and then  disappear.  Many hang in for a few years and then, due to pressures of life, simply decide to fold up.  Some die or become too ill to blog.  Some let us know when they’ve decided to quit; others simply disappear without a trace.

Not to be forgotten, however, and always missed.

I’ve made many friends here on WordPress.  I’ve met  few in person and corresponded with others.  Some who have left blogging have kept in touch.

It’s my good luck that one of those former bloggers is Vic from Just Plain ‘Ol Vic.  Vic closed up shop a couple of years ago, but we’ve exchanged emails periodically since then.  Recently, Vic sent me this email, and with his permission I am publishing it here:

Just Some Random Randomness by Just Plain ‘Ol Vic

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It has now been going on a couple of years since I quit blogging on WordPress and this marks the first time I have put “words to paper” since that time.  It both feels weird and refreshing, reminding me of what I am missing and the people I have met (and lost) in that time.

Something to ponder and perhaps a return?  Too soon to tell…

Really this post is for a small few people that I still communicate with by email.  I will admit that I miss getting a peek into your lives, hearing your words and heeding your advice.  It was a comfort to me and something that I dearly miss.  Socialization comes in many forms and while I get enough daily contact with people at work, remain active with my family – my blogging was for me and how I felt comfortable reaching out and expressing myself.

As 2018 comes to a close I am pondering this year and wondering how it ranks in the decades I have already seen.  Certainly towards the end of the year, my car accident put perspective on many things and perhaps highlighted some things I am not ready to tackle, but at least it was a moment of clarity and brutal honesty with myself.  It was a year marked by “normalcy” with my wife’s mental health, my children growing and maturing, and rising to the challenges my career has demanded of me. 

By many factors I can call it a success but yet in many ways I felt I enjoyed it very much alone, which brings me back to my blogging family.  Perhaps this is my way, at the end of the year, to open up and share a bit of myself with all of you again.  I hope 2018 was a year marked with happiness and growth, realizing that there were some speed bumps along the way but yet you have persevered and here we are.  With all my heart, I wish everyone the best in 2019 and I hope it will be a year filled with wonders to behold, new beginnings to enjoy and love to be shared.

I miss you all but feel glad that I can once again remove the façade I have for most everyone and just truly be myself….if only for a brief moment….and once again be Just Plain ‘Ol Vic.  Merry Christmas, Happy New Year!

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Please join me in assuring Vic that he is missed and has not been forgotten by his “blogging family”.  Perhaps with encouragement from all of us, he will consider returning.

Likewise, if any other former bloggers happen to be reading this and wish to re-enter the blogosphere without actually reopening their blogs, they are always welcome to come to me.  Even if they don’t wish to post, I would appreciate a simple email letting me know that all is well (cordeliasmom2012@yahoo.com).

I worry about all my friends.  Don’t you?

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Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas, Everyone!

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CORDELIA’S MOM’S CHRISTMAS NEWSLETTER (’cause we all love newsletters so much)

BUSY, BUSY, BUSY!

No time to write or to take and edit photos.

Enjoy this trip down memory lane (be sure to click on the links to the other wonderful posts!).

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Dear Readers:

Just a quick note to thank all of you for joining me throughout the year. And it was a good year, wasn’t it?

After starting off with something like 5 followers at the beginning of the year, I now have twice that! Woo-hoo! It’s just a matter of time before publishers start noticing my work.

Unfortunately, I waited all year to be Freshly Pressed, and it didn’t happen. Guess my posts weren’t boring enough to make their line-up.  And now that Freshly Pressed has been discontinued, my hopes are dashed.

(I’ve checked out the new Discover category, and it would appear it has the same WordPress editors as Freshly Pressed, so I’m not expecting recognition from that corner any time soon, either.)

On a more personal note, there were a few successes this year.

Once again, I met with G.O.D., and this time hubby joined me. Nothing like a meeting G.O.D. and his son to make a couple truly appreciate each other.  As a plus, G.O.D. (the Grumpy Old Dude of Archon’s Den) also got to meet Teddy Rosalie, ShadowPaws and Puppy Cody.  Puppy Cody was not impressed.

I also managed a luncheon with blogger/photographer Amy Rose – a very successful meet-and-greet, I might add. Teddy bears, boogers, slow wait service – but excellent company.  We’re already planning to do it again.

Our missing blogging friend, Paul Curran, was found alive and well, thanks to bloggers Mark Bialczak and Linda Hill.  Paul claims his internet has been down and the landlord is slow to fix it, but can we really believe anything another blogger says?*  Maybe those guest visits all over the world were simply too much for the time being.  I’m sure once Paul’s typing fingers limber up again, he’ll be back to posting and commenting.  Something for all of us to look forward to in the coming year.

*Even I exaggerate for effect sometimes – I had a few more than 5 followers at the beginning of the year.

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Now that we have Puppy Cody on a special prescription diet ($$$$), she’s no longer having all those little accidents in the house. Maybe it was her dietary issues that made her eat my cell phone?  I’ll never know for sure.

To all those who suffered with me through the household renovations – thank you! We now have a beautiful “new”  home – and finally, even the kitchen roof has been repaired.  I have absolutely no money left after paying all those contractors, and buying new furniture to replace the yard-sale crap we had before – but it was totally worth it.  Now I just need to cough up some friends to show it off to (not as easy as one might think).

Assuming, of course, I can continue to keep the neighbors under control. It would be quite embarrassing to have company at my house while the police are visiting the neighbors’ house – again.

But back to the blogosphere (and I apologize for the wandering nature of this letter, but I simply want to share EVERYTHING with you all).

When I began my blog, I promised myself I would not give advice to other bloggers. After all, I’m not all that great myself.  But I broke this promise several times during the year.  Most of my “educational” comments were politely ignored (“Thanks for your comment”), but I understand that Ned is currently out searching for those special beans to go with the coffee grinder he’s giving his kids for Christmas.  Go for it, Ned – and enjoy the money you’ll save towards your own retirement.

In closing, I’d like to wish each and every one of you a happy, healthy, and profitable holiday season – but as I mentioned earlier in the year, I must refrain from those politically charged holiday greetings.

So – a very special HELLO, HOW ARE YOU? to each and every one of you special people. And a hearty THANKS FOR READING AND COMMENTING to those who come back more than once!

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PS: Not CM also wishes to extend her greetings, but can’t think of a politically correct way of doing so being as she’s not a politically correct kind of person.  May all my readers be spared her blarney during this special season.  I’m sure she’ll have something to say later.

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All Psyched Up

I admit I had my doubts.  For the last 20 years, I had driven past the old Buffalo Asylum property at least twice a day.  While I had seen construction work being done, I simply couldn’t imagine how anyone could renovate that building to make it into anything other than what it used to be.

Welcome to the Hotel Henry, newly renovated on the Richardson Olmsted Complex in Buffalo, New York.  Our firm was going to have their holiday dinner in the hotel’s restaurant, 100 Acres.

While I had driven past the property many times, I had never actually gone into the complex.  Thus, a few days before our scheduled event, I drove in on my way to work one morning.  I was seriously unimpressed.  Yes, that’s the old Psych Center (see top photo) – and what is that empty auxiliary building?

It was dark and drizzly that morning, but I found the darkness appropriate for the photos.  What a creepy place for a Christmas event!

At least parking seemed adequate, which made me feel better.  What the heck – I had eaten in a converted jail cell at a restaurant in Owego, let’s see what they’ve done with the loony bin (pardon my political incorrectness).

The event landed on my normal day off, so hubby and I drove in after dark.  The “adequate” parking was no longer adequate – half of it had been cordoned off for valet parking, and the other half was full. We wound up parking on the street a distance away and hoofing it.

Guess what – a gap in the sidewalk from the street to the hotel.  We had to walk in the street in front of vehicles which were pulling up for the valet parking.

One of which was my boss – good thing he didn’t run me over.

The above photo was taken from inside – I only include it because this is the third time recently that I’ve taken a picture and discovered when tweaking it that there is a face!  Just to add to the creepiness, I guess.

The online reviews had indicated the restaurant is upstairs, without an elevator.  Sigh.  At least the stairs are a mild slope, and there is a landing halfway up.

Once upstairs, the awe began.  The idea of dining in hallways seemed strange, but 100 Acres does it right.

(No photos of our own group as I didn’t want to ask permission to post them and no way in hell am I posting a current photo of me.  Just sayin’).

When the rest of the group arrived, I learned that there is, in fact, an elevator.  Sigh.  But the additional exercise had probably done me good.

Many of the online reviews said the food is good but service is slow.  We were in no hurry, and the food is cooked fresh so takes a little longer.

It took awhile to get the drinks and appetizers, but worth the wait.  The online reviews all said “You must get the crispy potatoes!”  We did, and the reviews were right.  I thought they’d be like French fries, but they were beautiful little baby potatoes tossed in a light oil and then baked.  Yum!  The potatoes, scallops and other appetizers were so good that I forgot to take photos.

I did photograph hubby’s Organ Chicken Breast dinner, however:

I had the risotto.  The photograph isn’t great, but the food was:

While I had been looking forward to discovering their desserts, I was unable to order any.  One was a bourbon milkshake, and my digestion can’t handle hard liquor.  The other three options all contained nuts.  Damn my colitis!

During dinner, we watched various people going up the wooden staircase to the second floor (the elevator says the restaurant is the 1st floor, despite the stairs, go figure).

After dinner, a few of us decided to see what was up there.  I forgot to take a photo of the stairs themselves, which had been beautifully restored, but I did photograph this hallway and its window:

Wandering around, I saw a sign that indicated an “art gallery.”  How could I resist?  The “gallery” itself was nice but hard to photograph.  I did my best:

I know nothing about art so can’t attest to the works shown, but I assume they’re way beyond anything I could afford to buy.

Then, we all stepped beyond that room and around a corner, and my jaw dropped.  My photographer’s heart began jumping up and down shouting, “This is it!  This is THE shot!  Take it now.  Take it NOW!”  So I did:

THE CORRIDOR

Isn’t that awesome?  Can’t you just imagine two little twin girls standing at the end (ala Steven King’s Overlook Hotel in The Shining), perhaps dressed in ultra-modern clothing this time?

If I ever have an opportunity, I would love to go back to the Hotel Henry, have dinner and take more photos.  The elevator was stunning, and there is an incredible private lounge which I couldn’t photograph because it was occupied – and while I don’t know if I would ever stay there due to its history, I would love to see the inside of some of the guest rooms.

Thank you for taking this little tour with me.  If ever in Buffalo, NY, let me know.  There are so many places I could show you.

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