Dogs and Cats Living Together (Guest Post)

I am honored that Pat from New Bloggy Cat has agreed to share a post with my readers.  Enjoy!

P.S.:  I can’t decide which of the critters she writes about is my favorite.  Do you have a favorite?

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CookieCakes from the lovely blog, Cordelia’s Mom Still, asked if I would be interested in doing a guest post about my human’s pet ownership experience.  I am, of course, delighted!  Well, how often does a cat get a request to write a guest post?  But it took me a while to get this post ready. I eat and sleep too much.  And my stubby paws are too clumsy on the keyboard.

My human, Pat is a huge fan and lover of animals since she was a little girl. Pat grew up mostly with dogs, and there were a few dogs that were fondly remembered by her. I managed to dig into some (sneeze! sneeze!) dusty old files.  Ah yes, here it is – the ‘Pooch file’.

A stray female dog called Tiny

Pat was about nine years old when Tiny gave birth to puppies. And for some reasons, Tiny was not interested to nurse her own pups.  So, Pat went to the sundry shop situated about 100 metres from her house and bought a bottle teat (the one that looks like the lamb bottle teat).  She then fixed the teat to an empty bottle and fed the puppies.  It was a long time ago, and that was the most vivid memory of Tiny.

Rollie ~ the Roly-Poly Pekingese mix

Rollie

Pat’s aunt gave Rollie to her when she was 11. He was a fluffy plump dog. He was also very obedient and made a wonderful companion, especially during Pat’s teenage years and the rough patches in her life.  Pat’s dad had a brain injury when she was 15 and due to the delay in surgery, he was half-paralyzed.  And with the lack of support/ physiotherapy sessions, he did not regain use of his left hand and leg.  15 years later in mid-2000, her dad was diagnosed with cancer of the esophagus, and he passed away 6 months later in early 2001.

I was obviously not one of Rollie’s buddies because he could not stand the sight of cats. But I was happy for Pat to have had such a loyal companion.   Rollie died in 1996 when he was 15 years old due to old age.

Zico ~ Roly-Poly’s son

Zico

Zico was delightfully gorgeous and frisky. Pat loved the way Zico jumped on her bed and licked her face in the morning to wake her up for school.  At about the same time Zico was born, Pat brought home a mixed Siamese kitten, Yo-yo.  Zico and Yoyo used to play and sleep together on the sofa.  It was a joy to see them together.

But sadly, Zico died suddenly when he was barely a year old when Pat was 16. I missed this little fella too.  He was such a fun-loving dog.

 Mylo ~ The Stylo Mylo (Spitz mix)

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Mylo came to live with Pat shortly after Rollie died. He was no wimpy dog.  He was an excellent guard dog and a great hunter.  In fact, he had caught more mice than I did (no kidding!).  Each time he killed a mouse he would sit in front of the lifeless creature and watch it with his life.  But, I think he did that to make me feel bad. And I got the feeling, around him, that I was being tolerated.

Once Pat bought a green coconut and left it on the porch. I watched Mylo in astonishment as he bit the green shell/husk out vigorously.  Then he tossed the coconut like a football many times until it cracked open.   And he took his time to savour the delicious fruit.

Mylo died in 2006 due to kidney failure. He was 10 years old.

Monster ~ The Black Stallion (Rottweiler)

Monster

Pat and her hubby adopted Monster when he was about 6 months old. He was affectionate, zippy and goofy.  He would gnaw anything and everything, including his male human’s sunglasses and Ericsson phone.  And that was how the name “Monster” got stuck.

He was athletic too. He loved to play fetch, football and Frisbee.  Just say the word “ball” and he would get all spirited.  And he loved to play hide and seek with the girls.

Monster was an all-rounder and had had many fond memories with his human family. And he knew it was time to go, and he said goodbye to his human family on 2nd October 2014.

It took Pat and hubby a while to get over Monster’s passing and only until July 2015 did they decide to adopt another dog. But sometimes, finding the right dog can be a bit tricky.

Rusty Dusty

Dusty

He was an abused puppy but the volunteer (Ms T) who advertised in ‘Petfinder’ said it was a 3-month old Belgian shepherd mix and posted a fuzzy photo of him. He looked nothing like a Belgian Shepherd. He was scrawny and had a big maggot wound on his left rear thigh when Ms T brought him to Pat’s home.  The animal shelter was overcrowded, and Ms T asked Pat to consider giving this puppy a home. (And there I was in the background, making a fool of myself trying to do my cat-signal to tell Pat not to adopt this puppy). But Pat was not paying attention.

So, the puppy stayed, and Ms T said his name was Dusty. He looked more like ‘Rusty’ to me. A maggot wound at this age?  The wound stitches were about 3 inches long.  He was very fearful, hid in the corner the whole day and howled at night.  To cut the long story short, Dusty was returned to Ms T in less than a week.

Risky Whisky

Whisky

With Whisky, Pat thought she had finally found the right puppy. The puppy’s mother is the guard dog in a small shoe factory about 45 minutes from where she lives. When Pat saw the 2-month old puppy, he looked alright.  And Pat told the puppy’s owner (Ms N) that she would collect the puppy in about a month’s time as the puppy was still feeding on breast milk.

In mid-September when Pat collected the puppy, Ms N wrapped a towel around the puppy before handing over to Pat. Only in the car, did Pat realize that the puppy had lots of fleas on his paws and ears. Pat gave him a good wash, fed him and did all the things a good pet owner would do.  But as the days went by, the puppy became more aggressive with Pat’s daughters, aged 4 & 9.  He would jump on them and bite/pull their dresses.

So, finally Pat and her hubby decided this puppy would not be suitable for the girls, and Whisky had to be sent away to the animal shelter. Pat said that it was not an easy thing to do, but sometimes it is the right thing to do before the situation gets out of control.

Pat had Dusty, then she needed some Whisky and now she’s on…

Fire

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Pat got to know about Fire through Ms C.  Ms C said her friend was sheltering a stray that had given birth to 8 puppies and asked if Pat would be interested to adopt one.  He was such an adorable puppy and out of the litter, he was the odd one, and he looks like a Mastiff.  Pat’s girls simply adore him, and I think he is fitting in pretty well.

The only thing that still puzzles me is why the name, Fire? Well, I suppose any intruders will be fired out immediately.

Yo-yo the cross-eyed cat

Yoyo

Pat adopted Yo-yo, a cross-eyed Siamese mixed when he was a little kitten. He was intelligent, sociable and playful. Yo-yo and Zico were best of friends when they were young.  But unfortunately, Zico died when he was a year old.

Yo-yo then started to go out a lot during the day and only came home for dinner. One day in 1991, Pat received a call from her mom that Yo-yo was badly bitten by a stray cat.  And he had a really bad wound below his left ear.

At that time, Pat was away in college, which was about 2-hour drive from her hometown. Back at home, Pat’s mom managed to get her friend who was a veterinarian technician to help Yo-yo but it was not enough to save him. Pat would normally travel home by bus for the weekend to visit her parents. And on that sad Friday night, she got home just in time to say goodbye to Yo-yo.

Humans are truly blessed to have such wonderful four legged companions to help them understand the meaning of life. Pat had learned from Yo-yo and I how to live independently, ignore what others think about you and to do what you love doing, like sleeping and eating the whole day. And from her beloved Tail-waggers (only those with the ‘paw print’ on the photos) how to love unconditionally, forgive quickly, live peacefully, be faithful, listen attentively, shake off the lies and be happy always.

Before I paws off, I would like to share this beautiful quote with you:

“Animals don’t lie. Animals don’t criticize.

If animals have moody days, they handle them better than humans do.”

 Betty White, If You Ask Me

Purrrrrfectly yours,

New Bloggy Cat

New Bloggy Cat

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Portable Hardness

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAMy intentions were good.

By dropping my work week down to 4 days instead of 5, I would not only have the one extra day for much-needed rest, I would also have a whole free day to catch up on housework, shopping, etc.

Hasn’t happened yet. Turns out I really did need that extra day for rest, and I pretty much spend the time just frittering around, playing videogames, blogging, and maybe an occasional light chore like dusting (although last week I did manage to scrub and wax the kitchen floor, woo-hoo!).

Who would have known that when I told my boss I needed the reduced work hours “for my health” that it would actually be true? Ulcerative colitis can really take a toll on one’s energy levels.

Anyway, enough self-pity.

One of the projects on my ever-growing to-do list is to transfer all my computer games to disc so as to save storage space on the hard drive. I don’t want to go out and buy a new computer, but the one I have is getting slow because it’s nearly three-quarters full.

Being technologically incompetent, I pondered the problem for quite awhile. Would a memory stick work, and how much storage would I need?   When I bought my current computer, it took me a full two weeks to re-download all my games.  True, Big Fish Games (where I get my games, please don’t laugh) keeps a record of every game I’ve purchased so that I can re-download them if need be.  But I like my games handy – what if the Big  Fish site goes down and I really want to play Return to Ravenhearst?  Don’t even wanna think about that bad scenario.

Finally, I decided my best bet would be to purchase an external hard drive which plugs in with a standard USB cord. I didn’t even have to pay for it because I had sufficient points on my banking rewards card to cover the purchase of the portable drive.  Therefore, I’m not losing anything if the darn thing doesn’t work.

Today is the day I’ll find out. It’s my scheduled off-work day.  As usual, I’m too worn out to do much more than sit at the computer, so it seems like the ideal time to try out my new toy.

I’ll let you know how it goes. But if you don’t hear from me for awhile, it’s because I somehow managed to blow up my computer and have to dig up funds for a new one.

Wish me luck, folks.

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Changes and Losses II: Life’s Sequel (Re-Blog)

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RIGGSIE AND MORGAN AS PUPPIES

Get over it. It’s just a dog [cat, fish, bird, whatever].

How many times have you heard that?  How many times have you maybe said that?

In the last year, we have lost many animals from old-age-related issues.  I once had four tanks of gerbils (started with two individual gerbils which were supposed to be different sexes, but then had to separate the resulting boys and girls) – they all died of old age.  Ok, gerbils don’t stimulate sympathy in most people, but I was still sad when each one passed.  God bless the little things, each one made it to about 3-1/2 years or more, which is pretty amazing for such small animals.

Granted animals are not people, and perhaps grief should be retained for humans only.  Heaven knows, we all grieved when our Dan died of cancer last year, and my mother died of old age shortly thereafter.

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Riggsie At Ease

But somehow, losing our black German Shepherd, Riggsie, just made the grief so much more unbearable.  Riggsie lived to be 12 years old, and then succumbed to bloat (gastric volvulus).  Sure, surgery might have been an option, but the emergency room vet could not guarantee an elderly dog would survive the anesthesia and surgery, especially since poor Riggsie had immunodeficiency problems.  The dog was in agony.  The decision was made.

We went home from the emergency clinic without our Riggsie.

 

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Morgan Waiting for Mom

That was one year and 10 days ago.  In the last year, we still had our smaller, mixed border collie/shepherd, Morgan.  Morgan turned 13 last November.

Morgan enjoyed having the house all to herself without her “big brother.”   She “stole” all his toys, one of which was even bigger than she was!  She began snoozing next to my feet while I was working on the computer – Riggsie was the alpha dog and previously that was HIS spot, along with first dibs on the couch.

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Riggsie Being Scary

Just before Christmas of this year, Morgan developed a cough which wouldn’t go away.  We took her to our regular vet, thinking it was an allergy or something.  Sure, we had all noticed she had lost weight over the last few months, but just figured it was old age catching up with her.  Or perhaps it was her previous neurological problems reasserting themselves.  The vet examined her and took blood work – diagnosis:  Stage 3 canine lymphoma.

Without treatment, the prognosis was four to six weeks.  On prednisone only, she would have maybe two months.  If we opted for chemotherapy, we could stretch that to maybe six months.

The dog was over 13 years old and was already having trouble breathing.  Chemotherapy is expensive, tough on the dog, might not work for such an old dog, and even if it did work would only extend her life by a few months at most.  We opted for the prednisone therapy.

The day before yesterday, despite increased doses of prednisone, Morgan began gasping at night, and the fear in her eyes did me in.

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Morgan’s Last Photo Shoot

Yesterday, when Morgan woke up, she seemed perfectly OK again – almost like she thought she was a puppy.  But I remembered her eyes the night before, and knew she was declining rapidly

I called our vet to ask how I could know when it was “time.”  I truly expected the vet to tell me to bring the dog in for an exam.  But instead the vet explained to me just how aggressive Morgan’s lymphoma was and that things would likely be getting ugly very quickly.  She left it to my husband and me to determine if we wanted to try to keep Morgan around for another week or two, with the very real possibility that she would soon be in dire distress, or put her down gently now, before the real suffering began.

I made the appointment– the last appointment of the day, and the vet said she would wait for us to get there.

Although showing signs of her disease at the vet’s office, Morgan was still acting fairly peppy and friendly.  My husband and I developed enough doubts that the 5:00 pm appointment became 6:00 pm and required another conversation with the vet prior to the ultimate decision.  The vet reassured us that easing Morgan’s current suffering and preventing even worse future suffering was the right thing to do.

We came home without our Morgan.

I’m sure we did the right thing in preventing further suffering – the situation was hopeless.  But I still feel guilty.

And now we are dog-less.

It was so strange this morning that I did not have to put the dog out, did not have to shut doors to rooms the dog was not allowed in, did not have to feed the dog, did not have to worry about rolling my desk chair back and accidentally running over the dog’s tail or paw.

Sure, they’re just animals.

But it still hurts.

We’ll get past this grief like we have before, for both people and animals.

We may eventually get more pets, or we may not – that decision will wait until we’ve had time to process the current situation.

Meanwhile, Riggsie and Morgan can play with Dan and my mother in heaven, and watch over all those little children who have died unexpectedly over the past year.  Maybe God decided our losses were necessary in order to help those little children.

Rest in peace, lost loving souls.

And don’t anyone dare to tell me to get over it already – it’s just an animal.

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ADDENDUM:  As it turned out, I couldn’t stand living without a dog in the house.  Thus began the story of Puppy Cody.

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The Scariest Thing You’ll See Today

Take your pick.

Is it Puppy Cody, with her big toughie ball:

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CHECK OUT THOSE TEETH!

Or is it me:

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CHECK OUT THE MEAN OLD-LADY EYES!

Kind of a toss-up, isn’t it?

HAPPY HALLOWEEN, EVERYONE!

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