CookieCakes Feels Sorry for Herself

 

SadPuppyI have a summer cold.  No big deal, right?

Hopefully not, but I am immuno-suppressed due to my Remicade treatments, and I’m due for my next treatment on Friday.  Before treatment, the nurses always ask whether I have been sick or had any kind of infection in the recent past.

I need my treatment!  So, if I can’t get over this cold ASAP, come Friday I will either have to cancel my treatment or lie to the nurses (hopefully, my scratchy voice will be gone by then!)

Rescheduling my treatment would not be my first choice, because my ulcerative colitis would likely return immediately and with a vengeance.  I don’t like that scenario.

How dangerous, exactly, would it be to go ahead with my Remicade treatment while I’m still fighting off a virus of some kind?  I don’t know.  Hopefully, I won’t have to find out.

GameOverMeanwhile, I will be spending this holiday weekend mostly lying in bed or playing videogames, and drinking lots and lots of [non-alcoholic] beverages.  I will not let this cold beat me, and I will not give up my much-needed medical treatment.

Thank you for letting me vent.  I try not to do that very often.

NOTE:  If any of my readers suffering from ulcerative colitis are on Remicade or a similar  IV infusion therapy and have been faced with rescheduling a treatment due to illness, I’d really like to have some feedback on whether delaying the treatment had any detrimental effect –  or in the alternative, whether going ahead with treatment while ill caused any serious problems.  I  know what the literature says, but real-life experiences would be more helpful.

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I love  to hear from my readers.  You may comment on this post, comment on my Facebook page, or email me at Cordeliasmom2012@yahoo.com

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Yes! I Survived My First WordPress Year!

 

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Happy anniversary to Cordelia’s Mom, Still!

One year ago today, I published my very first post on this WordPress blog.

What a time I had leading up to that point!  I had never even heard of WordPress then, and while I had guest posted on my daughter’s blog, I had absolutely no idea how to set up my own.  Cordelia helped me a lot (thank you, again, Sweetie!) since she had negotiated the shark-infested waters ahead of me.

Talk about nervousness!  I believe every new blogger goes through the same thing – 50,000 or so edits before publishing that first post, and then checking the post every 5 minutes after publishing to see how many hits there are (usually something like 2 for the first post, both by the blogger herself – or maybe 3 if the blogger’s mother can be talked into reading). *

*Unless, of course, you’re Paul Curran, who got more views and comments on his debut guest post than I get in an entire month – dang it all.

Unlike most other new bloggers, I already had some readers (at least 2!) who had followed me from Cordelia’s site.  At this point in today’s post, I want to again thank Anne and Karen (you know who you are), without whose support I would have given up a long time ago.  Each time I experienced one of those f*-it-no-one’s-reading-anyway episodes, either Anne or Karen would come through with a positive comment or an email telling me how wonderful I was – and God knows, I needed that encouragement.

BlogIdeasSo, where am I today?  While my readership is nowhere near what I would like it to be (is it ever?), it has grown 100-fold from that very first post, and the followers I have gained are dedicated followers.  I’d rather have a handful of followers I can count on to actually read and comment on my posts, than a thousand bloggers who “like” or “follow” for the sole purpose of boosting their own numbers.

I have made friends in the blogging community.  There are bloggers with whom I have email conversations and to whom I often turn for advice, and there are bloggers to whom I have occasionally given advice.  There are bloggers for whom I guest post, and those who guest post for me.

The true dedication of my readers was demonstrated during the 2-day Not Cordelia’s Mom vs. Cordelia’s Mom fiasco.  I never expected the response my mirror blog elicited – before I admitted that Not Cordelia’s Mom was, in fact, written by me, many of my readers were blasting the bitch for having the nerve to say bad things about me.  Didn’t that make me feel very special?

(If I can write a character that totally believable, perhaps I should consider writing a novel.  What do you think?)

It’s all incredible fun.  I may never actually make any money with my writing (although y’all know I’ll keep on tryin’!), but I have gained an excitement in my life that was missing before I started blogging.  And thanks to WordPress, the cost is minimal.

(I have maligned WordPress in the past, so I’d like to take this opportunity to say that I really do appreciate what they provide in their basic membership package, and I have found their membership support to be awesome.)

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To celebrate my one-year anniversary, I give every one of you permission to raise a glass in my honor.  Just don’t send me a bill for it – didn’t I just say that I’m not making any money with my writing?

But I promise that someday I will make money at it, and I promise that if when the gold starts rolling in, I will arrange a real get-together and invite everyone of my blogging friends, at my expense.   And I always keep my promises.

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Meanwhile, let’s have a virtual anniversary party – at 9:00 pm tonight (Eastern Standard Time), I will be having my glass of celebratory wine.  Please join me – why not write a comment and tell me what you’re drinking, eating, or doing to celebrate with me?

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I love to hear from my readers.  You may comment on this post, comment on my Facebook page, or email me at cordeliasmom2012@yahoo.com

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Images by:  Pam Culver, and Owen W. Brown, and Lorenzo Lopez Photography, and Stéphanie Kllgast, respectively

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Weekend Under a Full Moon

Full MoonMy life is usually pretty boring, but every once in a while I have a non-routine weekend.  This particular weekend, there was a full moon – whether that contributed to the events, I don’t know.

Friday

On Friday, I had a day off from work because it was my IV infusion therapy day.  I don’t know about anyone else, but I’d much rather have needles stuck in various places and weird fluids pushed through my veins than to deal with my boss.

So,  Friday actually started off ok.  I slept in a bit, did a few light chores and got ready for my therapy.

Then I got the call from the large electronics store where I had purchased my TV.

Here’s the back story:

  • On the 21st of last month, my 28” TV/DVD player croaked.  It was only 6 months old and under warranty, so hubby and I dragged it back to the large electronics store where it had been purchased.  When I explained the problem, the customer service rep said it sounded like I would be getting a replacement TV.  But then, he checked with the manufacturer – who said the TV would have to be shipped to CHICAGO for repair, and it would take about a month to come back!

Jeepers – aren’t there any repair people within 100 miles of me?

Having no choice, we left the TV for shipment – again, this was the 21st of last month.

  • On the 30th of last month, I got an email saying the TV had actually been received in Chicago for repair.  Say what?  9 days to get from Buffalo to Chicago?  I could have driven it myself in 2 days.
  • On the 7th of this month, I got an email saying the TV had been repaired and was undergoing final inspection.
  • On the 8th of this month, I got an email saying the TV had been shipped and was on its way back to Buffalo.  (Hooray)

Guess the repair people in Chicago are a little more efficient at packaging and shipping than the store in Buffalo, although it still took another 10 days to actually get back to Buffalo.

  • DamagedPackageThen I got the call.  On the same day I was undergoing my IV therapy treatment, I received a voicemail from my large electronics store:  “Hi, this  is [rep from large electronics store].  Your TV got damaged in shipment, so we’ll be giving you a replacement TV.”

Say what?  Isn’t a replacement TV what I was supposed to get four weeks ago?

Saturday

Saturday started off fairly normal.  We had a morning appointment to get Puppy Cody’s nails clipped – no big deal.  Then for whatever reason, I decided I had finally had enough of the stuttering/jerky transmission in my Ford Focus, so I made an afternoon appointment with my favorite Ford saleslady to check out a new car.

Puppy Cody was good at her appointment, the vet told me.  However, the tech still managed to overclip one nail, causing some bleeding.  No big deal – the bleeding was taken care of, and we went on our way.

Quick stop at home to grab some lunch.  Hubby decided my car needed to be vacuumed and washed just in case I wanted to trade it in (this is the same guy who thought I was nuts to be thinking about turning the car in before lease-end).

EscapeTo make a really long story shorter – I drove a 2012 Ford Focus to the dealership and came back home with a 2014 Ford Escape.

Nice way to spend a Saturday afternoon, but I still think the full moon had something to do with it.

It wasn’t until 10 pm that night that I realized I had not done the laundry for the week and would be running around naked real soon.  That was when I discovered that there was a bloody paw-print on the light-colored pants I had worn while buying my car.  Well, that certainly explained some of the odd looks I had received on the new car lot!

Sunday

We were looking forward to a nice quiet day to catch up on everything that didn’t get done on Saturday.

It was not to be.

The first maiden voyage in my new Escape was spent driving my husband to the ER because his tachycardia had kicked in.  The ER was unusually busy for a Sunday morning.  By the time hubby was triaged, the tachycardia had resolved itself, so he opted to just go home rather than spend the $100 co-pay to be seen for a problem that no longer existed.  Since he goes through these episodes periodically, he pretty much knows when the incident is over, and I trust his judgment, so we went home.

It was his idea later in the day to go to the large electronics store to pick up my replacement TV.

I expected it to be an easy exchange since there was already a paper trail on the return, repair, and damage to the TV.

Of course, the store itself didn’t have quite the same paperwork, and a manager had to be called over.

Of course, the store did not have an identical TV in stock. When the manager said it could “take time to order one,” I nearly went ballistic.

Fortunately, that store has a good manager.  He offered to provide a similar TV in a different brand, and when he discovered that they did not have any 28” TV/DVDs in stock in the store, he replaced my broken unit with a brand new 32” TV/DVD  – and adjusted the price so I wouldn’t have to pay anything (heck, I shouldn’t have to- I’m not the one who broke the 28” TV in shipment).

And of course, we still didn’t have a proper stand for the TV , and Target is right next door.  Fortunately, Target had a stand in stock that will work.  Fortunately, I now had a very nice SUV with backseats that fold down so both the TV and the stand would easily fit inside.  Unfortunately, it was a very heavy box, and hubby strained himself taking it to the car and then into the house.

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It’s now late Sunday afternoon, and I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop.  Despite being in pain, hubby insisted he needed to go to the grocery store for our usual weekend stock-up.  He hasn’t returned yet.

Cody just pulled all the stuffing out of her newest toy, and is looking a little peaked.  I don’t think she ate any of the stuffing, but who knows?

I just want to have a light dinner and a glass of wine, followed by reading a good book.

TV1955Next weekend, we’ll put together the TV stand and set up the new TV.  Next weekend, I don’t intend to take my new SUV anywhere.  Next weekend should be pretty boring, and right now that looks pretty good to me.

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I love to hear from my readers.  You may comment on this post, comment on my Facebook page, or email me at cordeliasmom2012@yahoo.com

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Images by:  Rachel Kramer, and csc1950, and BlueSpringsFordParts, and Paul Townsend, respectively.

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Spam-Bam Thank You Ma’am (August 2014)

 

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Yes, it’s time for the next edition of Blast the Spammers!

They’re getting more aggressive and more creative – some have actually managed to worm their way into my legitimate comments queue.  But I caught them.  (Keep trying, spammers!)

So without further ado, here is this month’s selection:

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Comment:

“Cool blog! Is your theme custom made or did you download it from somewhere? A theme like yours with a few simple adjustements would really make my blog shine.
Please let me know where you got your theme. Many thanks.”

Response:

Not very observant, are you?  All of that information is listed at the bottom of my web pages.

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Comment:

“Im not capable of view this web site properly on opera I feel theres a problem.”

Response:

I hate opera – those sopranos hurt my ears.

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Comment:

“i’m sure i’ve skipped over much of what i have!”

Response:

I have no idea what you have, but suspect it’s not a great grasp of the English language.  Unless, of course, that comment was posted after a night of partying.

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 Comment:

sundial“Wow, awesome blog layout! How long have you been blogging for?
you make blogging look easy. The overall look of your web site is magnificent, let alone the content!”

Response:

Thank you very much for the compliment!  How long have I been blogging?  Long enough to recognize a spammer – nice try.

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Comment:

“Greetings from Colorado! I’m bored to death at work so I decided to browse your site on my iphone during lunch break.

I love the information you provide here and can’t wait to take a look when I get home.
I’m amazed at how quick your blog loaded on my cell phone .. I’m not even using WIFI, just 3G .. Anyways, wonderful blog!”

Response:

If any of my readers are employers in Colorado, please note:  you may have an employee who needs a whole lot more work.

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Comment:

“I observe there is plenty of spam on this weblog. Do you require assist cleaning them up? I may possibly help among classes!”

Response:

Sure, I can use a spammer to help clean up spam on my blog, especially a spammer who is class-conscious.

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Comment:

“what does lms mean on facebook”

Response:

Lost My Shit.  It’s often used in conjunction with LOL (Leaping Over Lollipops).

All together now (ta-dum!):

LMS LOL

Lost My Shit Leaping Over Lollipops

(Am I good or what?!  Wanna hire me?)

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There are just too many spam comments to include them all.  Watch for more CookieCakes snarkiness in September!

(As usual, apologies to the appropriate commenter if any of the foregoing weren’t, in fact, spam.  I realize that some comments suffer in translation, and I try to take that into account when determining what is spam and what is legitimate.)

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I love to hear from my readers. You may comment on this post, comment on my Facebook page, or email me at cordeliasmom2012@yahoo.com

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