Old[er] Age

The day started off wonderfully.

I had just gone to a 3-day work week, with Thursday and Friday as my off days.  This particular Thursday, the late-summer weather was absolutely gorgeous, and I was well rested.  I did three loads of laundry, then went for a much-needed haircut – to a great new stylist close to home, who didn’t charge a fortune for a simple cut.  On the way home, I drove through the car wash.  Once home, I cleaned the dashboard and windows in my car, and then took Puppy Cody into the yard to enjoy the sunshine.  The neighbors’ kids entertained Cody by throwing frisbees over the fence for her.  Having now had plenty of exercise, and having done her “business”, Cody was tuckered out – she would not need that daily evening walk.  And since I had been feeling sluggish and having some trouble walking any distance lately, that was just fine with me.

Hubby was still at work, and my chores were done.  Although I had breakfast at 7:30 am, I had no real interest in lunch.  So, I sat at my computer browsing the web and playing videogames.  Long ’bout 4:30 p.m., I started to feel a bit weird and figured it was hunger, so I grabbed a single slice of American cheese.

Hubby came home about 4:45 p.m.  When I stood up, I felt a bit dizzy.  After awhile, the dizziness became worse and was now accompanied by some nausea, so I took an antihistamine/decongestant to combat that.

The medication didn’t help.  Then the vomiting started.  And I was down for the count.

When this situation hadn’t abated after an hour or more, hubby started asking if I wanted to “go somewhere” for help.  I refused.  Surely, things would settle down if only I stayed still.

So, I sat in bed in a dark room, but every time I moved, the nausea and vomiting returned.  I started taking sips of water and nibbling on saltines, and eventually the vomiting stopped, but the dizziness remained.  I even fell asleep for about 20 minutes, but upon waking, I simply didn’t feel right.

At that point, I gave up.  It was near 9:00 p.m. and we headed off to the emergency room.

Thank heavens, the COVID-19 rush has eased.  I was in a bed in the ER within 5 minutes, hooked up to monitors.  By the time I had arrived at the ER, my vomiting had stopped and the dizziness had dimmed to merely room-tilting whenever I stood up.  However, my blood pressure on arrival was 181/92!  Because of chest tightness and left-sided achiness, a chest x-ray and EKG were done, and I was given a tablet of nitroglycerine (I guess because I’m not explosive enough …).  It was agreed that I would be kept overnight so as to undergo a stress test and brain MRI in the morning.  At the end of the stress test, my blood pressure was 196/100 (“Bingo!“).

After all was said and done, it was determined that I had not had a heart attack, nor did I have a stroke.  It was merely a hypertensive crisis.  I came home from the hospital with a prescription for amlodipine, a blood pressure medication – a medication I had been avoiding for years despite borderline high blood pressure.  I had avoided it because I knew once on blood pressure medication, you can never simply stop it.  But now was not the time to worry about that.

I must say that despite being sick, the hospital experience wasn’t overly stressful.  All the nurses and doctors were caring and efficient; my hospital roommate was a very quiet lady about my age who kept her TV low enough that it could not be heard past her bed; and my primary doctor’s medical group has a policy whereby they use “hospitalists” to monitor patient care while in the hospital.  The hospitalist is a doctor, physician’s assistant, or nurse practitioner who only sees patients in the hospital, but communicates with the primary and any specialists who might be involved.

Having been given a brochure explaining hospitalist care while I was in the ER, I was a bit concerned that a hospitalist would be aloof and would do everything possible to get a patient out of the hospital no matter what, to decrease hospital costs.  But the opposite was true.  My hospitalist, a doctor, took great care to make sure I had whatever tests were needed, and took extensive time discussing my care with me.  She was comforting, professional, and personable.  My primary later told me that the hospitalist was in constant contact with him throughout my hospitalization.  And, I didn’t have to tolerate the daily doctor parade, otherwise known as morning rounds, since my hospitalist coordinated all care and communication between the medical professionals.

All in all, a good hospital experience.

Not that I ever want to do it again, of course.

To make a long story shorter, I’m home now and feeling 100% better.  After just a few days on my new blood pressure medication, I’m walking better and not feeling sluggish.  In fact, I no longer feel like that elderly, decrepit lady I’ve been for the last few months.  Guess I was sick after all and just didn’t realize it, or refused to acknowledge it.

The point of this story, if there is a point, is this:  If for some reason you simply aren’t feeling right, whether physically or mentally, perhaps it’s time to see a professional.  While no one wants to be labeled as a hypochondriac, ignoring symptoms seldom turns out well.

Happy Thursday, folks.  For me, it’s the start of the weekend already, and I intend to enjoy every minute of it.

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Zoom to 3

There’s gotta be a back story, but I don’t know what it is.

So let’s make one up.

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[The candy company administrative people are currently working remotely, due to the nasty COVID-19 pandemic.  But the pandemic can’t stop candy manufacturing and marketing, can it?  Some issues still need to be dealt with.]

BILL:   Thanks, everyone, for joining this Zoom meeting.  Are we all here?  Where’s Joanne?

[Joanne quickly finishes a competitor’s candy bar; the edge of the wrapper can be seen in the lower left corner of her screen.  Shame on Joanne.  She may not be Zooming much longer, at least not for this company.]

JOANNE:  I’m here.

BILL:  Good, let’s start.  We’ve received complaints concerning our “3 Musketeers” candy.  It seems the name conjures a somewhat violent image of men with swords and attitude.  Management wants us to come up with a more politically correct name.  Any suggestions?

JOHN:  How about “3 Men on Horseback“?  We can leave the swords out of it.

EVELYN:  No, that won’t work.  The animal rights people will have a fit about the poor abused horses.

BILL:  Good point.  Maybe we could call it simply “3 Men“?

JOANNE:  Um, I don’t think so.  First off, no man would want a candy bar with that name – really, men eating men?  No way.  And while it might appeal to certain women who would love the idea of biting off a man’s head (no pun intended), others might feel the name is sexist.  Both men and women eat candy, right?

EVELYN:  Right.   And who knows for sure that little group was only men – what about equal rights?  Maybe it was 2 men and a woman, or 2 women and a man …

JOHN:  oooo, an orgy!  “3-Some” – Bet we could sell that!  but maybe not in the local grocery store.

[sounds of chuckling and coffee slurping from various Zoom sites]

BILL:  Let’s keep it clean, folks.  Could we just call it “3 People“?

EVELYN:  okay, but what skin color are those people?  No one wants racist candy.

JOANNE:  Yeah, and what is the political affiliation of these individuals?

JOHN:  How ‘ bout “3 Persons Who Matter“?  Don’t shake your heads at me – none of you are coming up with anything better, are you?

OFF-SCREEN SCREAMING:  Mooommeee!  Come quick!

[total silence on all screens]

BILL:  Whoever’s kid that is, you wanna go take care of that?

[No one leaves.  After all this is a work Zoom meeting, and absences to attend to family matters are noticed come raise time.  But, wait, is that a little hand reaching up from the bottom of Joanne’s screen?]

BILL:  Moving on.  Does anyone have anything?

[Apparently not, judging from the pained expressions, chairs squeaking, fiddling with pencils, etc. – and in Joanne’s case, pretending NOT to be looking into another part of the room.  She’s gotten really good at moving only her eyes.]

BILL:  Alrighty then.  I’m going to make an executive decision about the name.  This meeting is adjourned.  ‘Bye, everyone.

[And henceforth, the candy bar shall be called simply “3” – same great product, enjoyable by everyone!]

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DISCLAIMER:  I have never worked for Mars, Incorporated, the manufacturer of the candy in question and have never had any contact whatever with that company (other than occasionally consuming their tasty products – which by the way, include M&M’s, my absolute favorite photographic prop).  Heck, I’ve never worked for any large corporation nor in any job which involved Zoom meetings.  Obviously, the foregoing story is pure fiction, probably based on a sugar high after eating my photographic props (the aforesaid tasty products).  I made up the names of all the Zoom conference attendees; if any of those names somehow match someone currently working at Mars, Incorporated, it’s purely a fluke.  If anyone from Mars, Incorporated wishes to jump in with comments, I would be truly honored, but I would hope the Mars, Incorporated people would see the humor and enjoy this post as much as the rest of my readers will.  Heck, maybe now there’ll be a run on “3 Musketeers” candy as people stock up for Halloween.  Wouldn’t that be awesome?

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Cutting Down

The thought police are upon us.

I had an idea for a post and was trying to think up a title.  Would I call it “Cutting Down” or “Cutting Back” or perhaps “Making the Cut.”  In my own living room, with no one else at home, not speaking out loud, and not within range of any electronic device, I ruminated.  I do not have a smartphone, and my flip-phone was in the other room.

Once I had more or less decided, I sat down at the computer to draft my post.  As soon as I logged in, my home page immediately flashed a large ad for a nasty looking knife (“The best cutting tool in the world!”)

Say what?

This is happening way too much these days.  I can understand ads that pop up for products I may have perused online, and for those that I have already purchased.  I can even understand such ads appearing if I bought the item in a brick-and-mortar store because I would have used my credit card, which, as everyone knows, is totally trackable.

I’ve heard stories of people who have conversations while carrying a smartphone, or within ear shot of a computer or smartphone, and then are deluged with ads for whatever item/sports team/restaurant/tourist attraction they had discussed.  I’ve known people who received such ads in their home email after discussing something with a passenger in the car.

I’m beginning to seriously consider the theory that current electronic devices may have hidden recording devices managed by not-so-reputable people who then sell the data to marketers.

Not long ago, my husband perused an item online using his smartphone.  He did this at work, miles away from home.  It was my day off and later that afternoon, I logged into my personal email page from our home computer, and sure enough, there was an ad for the very item my husband had viewed.  It was not an item I would ever be interested in, and hubby and I had never, ever discussed purchasing it.  (I only knew about his search later that evening when I mentioned to him that for some reason my email account had an ad for [the item he had looked at].)  He had not previously searched for the item from home.  We have different email addresses.  My husband’s smartphone is not connected to our computer’s internet system.  Our computer and phones are with different providers using different internet systems.  That incident was unnerving, to say the least.

But unspoken thoughts?  That’s just too weird.

Maybe it’s just coincidence.  Maybe it’s because I’m getting older[er] and maybe don’t have full control of my faculties any more.  Maybe all those loose marbles are finding their way into other peoples’ heads and from there into the advertising world.

Maybe I’ll soon be receiving ads suggesting items more in line with my darker thoughts.  Won’t that be fun?

Even the eggs are getting weird – I couldn’t have manufactured that bubble no matter how hard I tried!

Anyway.

So, you ask, why the dilemma over the title of this post?  Were you thinking evil thoughts, CM?

No, I’m not turning bad. I’m merely cutting back (cutting down/making a cut) on my work hours.  I am now working 3 days a week instead of 4.  I was finding 4 days just a bit too much, but I can’t afford to retire completely, so 3 days seems like a good compromise.

Of course, the paycheck will now be based on only 3 days a week, but I’ve done the math and should bring home just enough to meet the monthly bills, and maybe still put a tiny bit into savings.  I’m ok with that.  Working 3 days and then having 4 days off should do wonders for my health and my attitude, wouldn’t you think?

I’ll let you know how that goes.

Meanwhile, may you all stay safe and healthy, and may Mother Nature be kind to you.

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Going Squirrely

Run, Squirrel, Run!

My Remicade infusion was done, and I didn’t have to be anywhere until 4 pm.  I didn’t want to go home and disturb Puppy Cody, knowing I’d have to leave again an hour later.  Cody hates it when I leave a second time.

It’s been months since I strolled through Walton Woods Park in Amherst, New York, and I felt like being outside.  The temperature was in the mid-60s (F) – a perfect day for walking in the woods.  Today, the park was nearly empty – I don’t know if it was because of COVID-19 or merely because I was there late in the afternoon, but I enjoyed the peace and quiet.

A Good Place to Contemplate

Late Summer Trail

Tree Fallen Into Pond

Swimming Log

Purple Asters

Purple Clover on the Shore

I was hoping that because the park was so empty, I would spot a few deer.  That didn’t happen, but there were lots of squirrels:

Taking Home the Groceries

(Look carefully – it’s a different photo than the one at the head of this post.)

Scrambling Squirrel

Downward Motion

And a chipmunk:

Chipmunk Enjoying Dinner

Then, I thought I heard hoof beats – was it a deer?  No, wait, the thumps had a musical tone.  Were the deer wearing jingle bells?  Not.

For whatever reason, someone had hung some windchimes from a low branch in the middle of the woods:

Having now taken my fill of photos, it was time to head out to my 4 pm appointment.  Arriving home, I saw lots of white smoke emanating from the property at the end of the street:

CM, is your neighbor’s house on fire?

No, thank heavens.

It was the annual barbecue at the church on the corner, which started at 4 pm, and my next door neighbor had kindly given us two tickets so hubby and I could each enjoy a wonderful dinner:

Winner, Winner! Chicken Dinner!

It’s so nice to finally have good neighbors.   Life is so much easier now, at least in this neighborhood.

Hope all is well wherever you are.  Hugs to any of my readers who are in areas currently being ravaged by fire, smoke, tornadoes, hurricanes and/or coronavirus.   May you all come through safely.

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