Love Taps

Every young girl dreams of that elusive all consuming, fireworks filled love relationship.

But many of us learn that a union filled with unbridled passion, without underlying caring and respect, will not last.  My mother always told me that a lover should be a friend before becoming a spouse.  As usual, Mom was right.  Over the years, passion may tone down, but caring never does.

There are so many little ways to show love to your partner.  Perhaps it’s simply holding a door open or helping carry packages; maybe it’s buying, or baking, your loved one’s favorite treat; maybe it’s listening while your partner rants (or raves) about his or her work day.  Or being there while your loved one faces a medical crisis.

Or possibly, it comes down to something as simple as staying up late to dig out, and thoroughly clean, that old tea kettle because the microwave just died, and you know your wife will want her morning cup of tea.  How many husbands would even think of that?

Mine did.  And I am so grateful.  Guess maybe I should keep him.

To my readers:  Give a hug today to that person closest to you.  Say it’s from me.  Everyone stay safe and healthy as we continue to go through our current health and political crises.

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And That’s Why I Hate Turkey Soup

“Alone and Confused”

The marriage was over.  The last day on the job was done.  Tomorrow, Jessica’s dad and her brother would arrive to help her pack and move back to the family home.

Jessica could not care for both dogs on her own; by agreement, the ex had taken custody of the huskie and Jessica got the hound.

On his way out the door, the ex had grabbed the last of Jessica’s cash and her credit cards, declaring that he had to to support himself once she was gone.

(Years later, Jessica would learn that the ex had used the credit cards to buy big-ticket items, which he then sold to others for cash.  He sold the huskie to a dog-fighting ring.  All that money was used to fund wild drunken parties for his friends.)

There was still today to get through.  Jessica spent the time sorting through items she could take and those she couldn’t.  Her dad’s SUV could only hold so much, and she would have to leave a lot behind.  Jessica could not afford movers.  Except for her bed, her furniture would be abandoned.

The dog food had run out days before, and Jessica had shared what little people food she had with the hound.  After all, the poor dog couldn’t understand what was happening, could he?

The freezer contained a package of frozen turkey giblets, which had been intended for turkey soup; a search of the cupboards turned up about a teaspoon of uncooked white rice.  That would have to be dinner for both of them.

Once cooked, it wasn’t much.  The dog stared trustfully at Jessica as she spooned the “soup” into a bowl.  He was hungry, but his owner was in control, and he was a good dog.

Oh well, what was one more day?  Jessica had skipped meals before.  So many meals, in fact, that she had lost 20 lbs. in the last six months.  Her mother would not be happy.

On the other hand, her mother would have a wonderful home-cooked meal waiting for her arrival tomorrow.

The hound dog got dinner tonight; Jessica did not.

As she packed up the rest of the dishes in the cupboards, Jessica discovered one M&M that had fallen out of the bag at Halloween time.

Yes!   Jessica would have dinner after all.

[I hope you’ve enjoyed my rare excursion into flash fiction.  As all of us in the U.S.A. await the final results of our Presidential election, this seemed like an especially good time to simply entertain my readers.]

“United Against the Darkness”

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Because We All Love Puppy Photos

“I’m All Ears, Mom!”

Our newest family member.

Say hello to Maya, the 10-week-old German Shepherd puppy – Puppy Cody’s new little cousin.

If only the silly thing would hold still for 2 seconds so Grandma could get a nice, clear picture.

But she’s adorable none-the-less.  It’s going to be so much fun watching her grow, especially since I don’t have to take care of her.

“Wolf In Puppy Clothing”

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Weekly Deja Vu

Winspear Ave. in Fall

Do you ever feel like you’re living in the movie, Groundhog Day?

I sure do.  Every week, I work Monday through Wednesday.  I get up, eat my half-bagel, and head off to the office.  On one of the three days, I stop at the car wash on the way in.  ‘Cause I have a monthly unlimited membership and no way am I going a week without using that.  Even if it rained before I left the house.  Heck, I paid for it and I’m going to use it.

Follow that Vehicle

On Thursdays, I do laundry and household chores; on Fridays, I often have medical appointments.

Every week.  Week in and week out.

But I’m not complaining.  Things have been pretty humdrum here in my area of the world, and humdrum can be good.

Thanks to our Gov. Cuomo, New York State has kept the COVID-19 pandemic under control – although even here, our positive cases and hospitalizations have been rising.

Scares the hell out of me.  After all, the “big” holidays are coming soon, when everyone will want to have those huge family gatherings.  Can you really expect people to give up Thanksgiving and Christmas with their extended families?  Sure, you could make everyone wear masks when they arrive, but once the food comes out, those masks will be coming off.  Then, there’s the laughter, shouting, passing of plates – and there may be that one person who insists on tasting a particular food and then putting the serving spoon back into the bowl.  In some households, there may be singing and dancing.  I call them COVID-19 parties, and those virus germs absolutely love dressing up and going out to infect.

But, of course, according to our delightful King Trump, that virus will simply disappear the day after Election Day.  Hope abounds for those who are currently struggling with the virus, for their families and for the families of those who have lost the coronavirus battle, and for all those health care workers who are trying to keep everyone healthy and alive.  After November 3, according to the King, we will all be able to relax and return to our normal pre-pandemic existence.   And we will all be able to enjoy those ballooning 401-Ks.

(I don’t know about anyone else, but I have never held a job that offered a 401-K, and so far as I know, most of the people who have lost jobs during the pandemic are those who were in service jobs that also didn’t offer such benefits.  Perhaps we can enjoy other people’s happiness in their newfound prosperity while we worry and suffer.  Oh wait, I forgot – that suffering is ending on November 3.  Woo-hoo!)

Anyway.  Pardon the rant.

With the encouragement of so many of my readers, I managed to take a few more autumn photos on my way to and from work.  See the photos at the head of this post and at the end of it.  It’s the same street (Winspear Avenue in Buffalo, New York) that I photographed previously, but this time I managed to get the shots after the rain just as the sun was coming back out – and praise be, I got those while the fall colors were high and before the rain started up again.  By tomorrow, we may have snow covering those colors.

Not looking forward to that.

As usual, may all my readers stay safe and healthy.  Hunker down wherever you are, keep your pandemic pantry filled if you have one, keep your spirits up, stay in touch with family and friends, and may science, not politics, determine all our futures.

Winspear Ave. in Fall – The Next Block

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