
Yes, there are advantages to having been financially challenged my entire life.
I know how to budget. I know how to stretch that increasingly devalued dollar. I know how to be content with the basic necessities of life. I’ve learned to be satisfied with the need to forego all those little luxuries that so many other people take for granted.
When my children were small, I was ecstatic if I had $10 left at the end of the month. Forty or so years later, I’m even happier if I can break even – which, thanks to Medicare co-pays and deductibles (20% for my Remicade infusions!), almost never happens. Each month, I’m forced to dip into my small savings by several hundred dollars to meet those medical expenses.
But thanks to my historically struggling finances, I’ve also learned to adapt. Sudden economic crises, while still annoying and upsetting, seldom give me heart palpitations like they did when I first entered adulthood.
For instance –
We thought we were done putting money into our home (doesn’t everyone always hope for that?).
But then a visitor arrived and a corner of the bottom step of the front porch broke off. Thankfully, there were no injuries; the visitor was limber and didn’t fall. However, the incident forced us to face reality – both the front and side porches were really, really old, poorly constructed in the first place, and about to collapse. In order to avoid potential injuries – and potential lawsuits – both would need replacement NOW.
Fortunately, we were able to find a contractor who did the work beautifully for a price that came in well below what we expected – but that cost still had to come out of our savings.
Were we done now?
Surely, you know better.
We had the main roof on the house torn off and replaced several years ago, but there’s an extension that has a rubber roof which is probably 20 (or more) years old. That rubber roof, while holding at the moment, is making us a little nervous. So that cost will also have to come out of our savings. So far, the estimates for just that little rubber roof are coming in at the same price we paid for the entire main roof five years ago, and the cost is likely to be even higher if we have to wait until the warmer spring weather.
Thank you to the current U.S. administration. Those of us who aren’t billionaires or trillionaires are seriously struggling. But that’s ok – glitter in the White House is so very important, isn’t it?
The family is going to really hate me come Christmas time, when I tell them all that there will be no presents this year.
Or maybe they won’t hate me. They’re also facing financial struggles caused by the current economy. Some have even lost their jobs. But like me, they know how to deal with it.
We will all survive. I suspect it will be tougher and tougher over the next few years, but somehow we’ll get through it.
Maybe one of us will win the lottery and bail everyone else out. Wouldn’t that be lovely?
Hugs to all my loyal readers. How’s it by you?
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